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The Decision Institute – Coach Manny Nowak

Sales and Leadership Development

“There are no great people in this world, only great challenges which ordinary people rise to meet.”

–William Frederick Halsey, Jr.


Did you ever notice that the most approachable people are the ones who have attained great successes themselves? They seem so open and willing to talk with you and listen to you. Did you ever notice the “let’s pretend I am important people” are not really that important after all?


A good friend of mine is an extremely successful entrepreneur. He’s earned a three-time Inc. Top 500 listing, took his company public, made a great deal of money, and he’s continued to build more companies. Some worked, some did not. He has had great success and could be classified as a “serial” entrepreneur.


Yet, if you met him at a networking event, you would find that he was one of the most approachable people there. If you went up to him, he would begin talking with you, making you totally comfortable. In fact, if he knew you were a newcomer to the group, he would try his best to help you meet people.


So what do you have to do to be approachable?


What are some of the very simple things that we can start with to get you to the point where people will come up to you?


First, and this could be your greatest asset, put a smile on your face. It is so easy to walk up and start talking with a person who smiles at you. It makes you feel comfortable from the start.


Second, make eye contact. Look like you want people to come up to you and just see what happens. If you look away you will drive people away. If you look down, they will go around you. Be approachable.


Too many times people go to a networking event, see a bunch of cliques, and get really turned off. I know I hate to go to certain events, and in fact I don’t go to them anymore, because the people are so into each other that they don’t care about a visitor. They really don’t want to network, they want to socialize.


The above is from my book, “The ‘Manny’ Ways of Networking Successfully, Too.”  

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Are you using Linkedin to generate business?

Is it working for you?

 How are you using it?

Are you getting what you expected?


How can you do it better?


Linkedin is one of the most powerful tools out there for generating business.

Yet, so many people are not using it the way they could.


This article is a simple introduction to help you learn a little more about the tool and to help you to start using it for generating business.

If you want to learn more – check out the free webinar we did, Click here.


So how can you use Linkedin to generate business?

There are so many people on Linkedin.

I have been able to find people I have not connected with in years.

It is the gateway to building new relationships, rebuilding old relationships and generating business.


But it does not do it for you, it simply opens the door.

Linkedin is a tool.


If you are looking for companies and connections, where should you start.

Let’s look at one simple example.


You first have to define what you are looking for:

Example 1:   I am looking for:

Small business owners (Owner, CEO, President).

In the Service industry.

In the state of New Jersey.

Who are connected to someone I know well.


Example 2:  I am looking for:

Purchasing agents.

Medical supplies business.

In the Greater Northeast.

Who are connected to someone I know well.


The key here is to use the gold you have first.

Start with the people in your network that you know well – they are your gold.

Find one person you know very well who you know will help you.

A person who has 200+ connections.


Now take time and look through their connections.

Find the connections that meet your criteria.

Make a list of them.

Start conservative, find 20-25 that fit well.

That is enough for now


Now pick up the phone and call your friend.

Hi, Mary, this is Manny.

I was just going through your connects on Linkedin and found some people you know that I would like to connect with.

Can we get together (phone of in person) and discuss the list.


If you would like to go through my connections before the meeting and see who you would like to connect with, I would be happy to help you as well.

I can send you my list before we get together so you can look through them.


That is it.

Now when you two get together.

Your friend will have gone though the list you sent, crossed off all the people she does not really know that well.


The original list of 20-25 is now down to about 10.

But they are 10 that will work.


You now go through the list and talk about the people she can connect you with.

After this, you might be down to 5-6 really good connections for you.


The best method at this point is if your friend, right then, will pick up the phone and make the connection and set up a time for you to call the person.

That is not always convenient.

Nor does everyone want to do it that way.

So, if they call later, that will work as well.


The other method is for them to send an email and make the connections.

That works also, but the phone is so much more powerful.

And so much more successful.


What if you did this with just one person a week for the next 6 months.

And each one connected you with just 3 people.

3 x 26 equals 78 connections.

If you close only 8, and perhaps started a relationship with another 8.



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How to talk with new people

Posted by Manny on January 28, 2014
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We are afraid to get a “no” and
we may be even more afraid to
give a “no.”

We would rather give a:
“Let me think about it”
“I will get back with you”
“I have to talk to my boss.”

But so many times all this is, is
a simple smoke screen for “no.”

Why can’t we just say “no.”

If you tell me “no,” then I can
take some action.
Both of us can move forward.

If you keep me hanging, then I
just keep hanging.

What am I going to do when this
person calls me back?

Why didn’t I just say “no” and end
it, now I still have to deal with it.

What are they going to think when
I don’t make the event, I know
I can’t get there.

Why can’t we just say it?

No, I am not interested in your product.
This allows the person to either
come up with another technique
or move on.

No, I can’t do that for you.
This allow the person to
find someone else to do it,
or do it themselves. Why do
we hold back the process.

No, I will not be there.
Now you can invite someone
else. Now you do not have to
spend the evening waiting for the

Instead, we say, “let me think about it.”

This is a new year.
Are you ready to focus your time,
energy and resources in the right
Start learning to say, “no,” as soon
as you believe it is true.
Start pushing others for an answer,
not a delay.

Three simple things you can do
this year to help you.

1/ Trust you judgement
When you know you are not
going to buy, say, “no thank you.”

When you know this is not the
right product or service for you
say, “no.”

When you know there is no way
you can get there, say, “no I will
not be there.”

You will be amazed at the time
you save both you and the
other person.

2/ Push others for a “no.”
Interesting sales process
that some of you might have
seen involves seeing who can
get the most “no’s” in a day.
Sales teams set a goal of
getting x number of “no,”
answers, and amazingly,
they usually sell more.
Because they waste less time.

So, you mean really you
are not interested and the
answer is no?

So, you mean that right now
the answer is no and your
boss is not going to change

So, you are very busy and
really you are not going to
make the event.

You see, if you get a no, you
can either close it out, or take
the next step.
If you don’t get a no, you are
left hanging.

3/ Understand your priority and
plans for this year
It is so easy to say “no” when
you understand what you
want to accomplish and
what it is going to take.
Does this fit into your plan,
if so, then say “yes” and
move forward, if not, say no.
Having a clear definition of
what you are going after,
makes it so easy to say no.

Do you have a plan for the new year?
Do you know what you want and
where you are going?
Do you have your priorities in line
and are you working the right things?
You need this if this is going to be
your best year ever.

In my book, “Failure creates success,”
I talk a great deal about decision
making. You have to take changes
if you want to go for the gold. Part
of that is you have to learn
to say, “no.”

Make this the year you do it.
Go to the gold.

Now, either say “yes”, or “no.”
Are you going to join us for this
exciting webinar on becoming
better at networking?
“How to Build Relationships
That Generate Business

To learn more, http://sellingsuccesssecrets.com
Yes or No?

“Poor or NO Followup.”

Yes, you might have learned to talk to
people and you might be good at it.

Yes, you might be going to better and
better events all the time.

Yes, you might have learned how to
plan for an event.

But all that goes out the window if you
don’t follow up, if you don’t build
relationships with the people you meet.

I was at an event early in December,
there were 400 people there.
I knew no one.

When I left the event, I had over 25
new connections and had started
at least 1/2 dozen good relationships.

Plus, I can guarantee you that none
of those people will fall through the
cracks and be forgotten.

In today’s world of technology, it is
ridiculous to allow people you meet
to be forgotten.

Let me share with you today as we
start this new year, some simple follow up
tips, that you can apply and that can
make this your best year ever.

1/ Send an email after the event to
everyone you meet.
This last event I attended was four days
long and every night I sent and email to
everyone I met that day. What I did was I
started to build relationship right away.
It was amazing what happened
when they saw me the next day at the event.

2/ Put the people you meet on your email list.
Start introducing them to yourself and your offering.
Start learning about them and their offering.

3/ Put them in your CRM system.
Put the next touch point into the system.
Stay connected.

4/ Classify them as either A, B or C
A – need to meet with now.
B – Need to stay connected personally and meet
with soon.
C – keep connected via newsletter and email.

5/ Have a stay in touch plan.
How do you stay connected to people?
Do you do a regular newsletter?
Do you do a regular mailing?
Do you do regular calls.
What is it you do?

In six months when I return to the event I
attended in December, I will not walk in cold.
I will have some relationships that have started
to come together. I will build new ones.
I will work the existing one.

Networking is a long-term process.
You meet people today.
Some will take years to do business with.
Some you never will do business with.
Some will introduce you to key people in your life.
Work the relationship and you will be amazed
at what happens.

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The “Manny” Ways of Networking Successfully, Too
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for our free networking webinar.

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And never forget, Failure Creates Success
You got to go for it if you want to creates success.
It doesn’t just happen.

Today’s article is an excerpt from my new book
which just hit the Kindle market last week, The “Manny” Ways of Networking
Successfully Too.

Please enjoy and if you like the article, then
try the book.

Many of you out there think you cannot
network because you are way too shy, you
are an introvert, and only really outgoing
people can be successful at networking.


I once was a shy, introverted,
sit-in-the-corner-and-do-my-job computer
programmer. Unless you came up to me
and started a conversation, I would not talk
with you. I wanted to talk with you, I thought
about talking with you, but I never did.

Years ago, I would be afraid to go anywhere
I did not know someone. If you went to
high school with me, or even college, you
would never believe the person I am today
is the same person.

One day in the early 1980’s, while I was
working as a technical programmer, my boss
came up to me and said, “Manny, you are
going to be an account manager. As of next
week you will have 10 people reporting to
you and you will have 10 major accounts to
manage and get more work out of.” He then
left the room. I was devastated.

Devastated might be an understatement.
Think about it for a moment. I was in a world
where I controlled everything. Computer
programming is where you determine the
path of the process. You tell the computer
what to do and it does it. It does not ask
questions. It does not argue with you. It does
not tell you no. It does not talk back. It does
not expect you to react and interact.

I was being dragged into an environment
where I had very little control. I would be
in a place where I would have to use my
skills of influence and my ability with people.
How was I going to do that?

The first question mentioned in the prologue
of this book, “what do I do now?” was exactly
where I was. But I did it––I learned the
secrets of networking–– and so can you.

So how can one go from being a shy and
introverted programmer to being a networker?
What happened?

It was not easy. It was a very scary situation
that I found myself in.

But I did it, and so can you.

Stop thinking about becoming great at
networking, and start doing it.

Make 2014 your best year ever.

Start building those relationships today.

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Always remember, Failure Creates Success.
If you are not trying you will never fail.
True, but will you ever accomplish all you were put here to do?